Carson Elliott writes a weekly column for the Augusta Chronicle. Contact her by mail at Ask Carson, The Augusta Chronicle, P.O. Box 1928, Augusta, GA 30903-1928 or e-mail at askcarson@home.com.Carson Elliott's Web site is at www.theproperthing.com.

Columns

• Playing the name game
• Gifts are appreciated
• Registry note on invitation improper
• Groom's mother wonders what to wear
• Thank-you card still required for gift
• Wedding guest finds request puzzling
• Response to a gift should be required
• Getting even won't accomplish anything
• Wedding day dilemma
• Wedding name game confuses minister
• Afternoon wedding is early for black tie
• Boyfriend will have to sit out wedding
• Gifts should be mailed to bride