Q: Do we need to have an even number of men and women as attendants?
A: When choosing attendants, choose the people that mean the most to the couple. There doesn't have to be an even number of men and women, unless you want symmetry. There are simple solutions from balancing out the processional and recessional if you have more bridesmaids or groomsmen.

Q: Do I have to ask my fiance's sibling to be my attendant?
A: There is no rule that you have to ask them, but it can be important to some people. It depends on the family, so you will probably want to discuss it with your fiance. If it is important to you fiance and his/her family, consider your relationship with your in-laws before you make your decision. You can also include them in the wedding in other ways — ushers, readers, etc.

Q: I have a dad and a stepdad. How do I handle who will walk me down the aisle?
A: Remember, you don't have to have any escort down the aisle. You may want to talk to both father and stepfather and determine how they feel about it, and explain your own feelings on the subject. Come to some solution that all parties feel comfortable with.